Its Impossible to be a Perfectionist

True isn't it?

Seriously it is. Today,was just another day. A day that brought the anger and anxiety out of me after a really long time. I wont deny the fact that I am a 'Perfectionist'. Because i know i am and in fact at some point or some situation I think we all are. The worst part when you try hard to make everything perfect and instead of being near absolute, it just gets even more flimsy. 

Due to my project I'm given the responsibility to complete a certain task but the rest of my team mates apart from another guy, THEY WONT COOPERATE! which made the scenario tense and disquiet. Just when we were in the initiating stage they couldn't recreate what i had in mind. I flipped out but didn't let it seem too obvious or too out there, kept it to myself. I tried my best to convey how to do this or that but still the results weren't what I wanted.

I was so pestered  by all that. So, I asked my sister about it, she is a very precise person when it comes to reality and honesty as she isn't diplomatic and her straight forwardness is the best, she told me it happens. It has been like this always. I guess I was always surrounded by people who were creative. It is a fact though " great minds think alike". Still its tough to work with the unlike ones as they barely get what you are trying to say or conceive out of them or they would blankly stare at you after as if you just told them history of Russia, in short a jeopardized perplexed uncomfortable look that would make you look like a freak. I learned a new thing, "how to deal such people - NON PERFECTIONIST ONES"

1. Be patient.

2. Repeat your words twice or thrice in every language they understand

3. Show them how to complete that certain task by a little preview

4. Keep your ego aside, world contains every type of people in it. 

5. Learn how to work in such agonizing environment

6. If you can't do all of that then.

JUST DO IT YOURSELF... that's the best I guess. I couldn't do it as I didn't wanna be the starry one, I was supposed to 'cooperate' so 'co-operate'. 

Well thats all for today. Stay tuned for the next ones :) #keepcalmandrelax